How do you spend your time? It’s a question worth asking yourself now and then – especially on those days when it seems that there aren’t enough hours to accomplish even half of the items on your to-do list.
I might be the last person on earth who should be dispensing time-management advice of any sort. When it comes to time wasting, I am no slouch, thank you very much. On the other hand, perhaps that’s what makes me (almost) qualified to write about time management.
On a recent Saturday morning, I was in rare form. How did I spend my time? To answer that question, all you have to do is take a peek at my Web search history.
A little context: I’d been watching the Indians play the White Sox on TV, and there was an interview with White Sox skipper Robin Ventura. He seemed like a fairly intelligent and articulate guy in the interview. That made me think about a time when he did something not-so-intelligent (charging the mound after Nolan Ryan plunked him on the back), and I felt compelled to watch it.
1:13 p.m. – Google search: "Robin Ventura vs. Nolan Ryan"
1:13 p.m. – YouTube: "Nolan Ryan and Robin Ventura confrontation. FIGHT 1993"
At this point, I must have paused to reflect on the ridiculousness of baseball fights.Lest you come away from this blog kicking yourself for wasting your time, here's an idea: You could use the Robin Ventura-Nolan Ryan incident as a cautionary tale to teach workers about making smart, safe decisions. If Ventura – a two-time All-Star – would have taken a moment to think things through, he could have avoided putting himself in a hazardous situation. The incident is tailor-made for a safety campaign (a good title might be "What was he thinking?"). But I digress.
1:21 p.m. – YouTube: "NYM@NYY Roger Clemens beans Mike Piazza"
1:22 p.m. – YouTube: "Pedro gets plunked. Pedro charges the mound."
At this point in my web chronology, it should be obvious where I went next:
1:23 p.m. – Google search: "Don Zimmer vs. Pedro Martinez"
1:23 p.m. – YouTube: "Yankees-Red Sox Brawl 2003 ALCS"
As someone who hates the Yankees and Red Sox, I like nothing better than watching the two teams try to wipe each other off the face of the planet. But it was sad to see what happened to Don Zimmer – a man who spent all 184 years of his life involved in the game that he loved so well.
From that point, I spiraled. That’s all I can say.
1:26 p.m. – YouTube: "NOLAN RYAN VS BO JACKSON (bloody lip)"
1:27 p.m. – YouTube: "The Top Ten Weirdest Fights in Sports History"
1:30 p.m. – YouTube: "Best Mascot Fight Ever (VERY FUNNY)"
1:30 p.m. – YouTube: "Famous Chicken gets beat up by the opposing team!"
1:31 p.m. – YouTube: The Famous San Diego Chicken and little chickens"
According to my web history, my browsing session ended at 2:07 p.m., after I caught up on the latest local sports news. It’s important to be “caught up,” of course.
Don't Nickel and Dime Yourself
I’m taking a humorous look (well, you be the judge) at how I spent an hour of my Saturday to show how easy it is to nickel and dime yourself with time wasters, only to wonder how the day got away from you. A minute here and a minute there can add up.
If you want or need some real advice on time management, I recommend Tony Robbins (no affiliations here). One of the thingsI always follow up with this question: “How can I use my time wisely right now?” I use these two questions almost as mantras or meditations, repeating them gently or forcefully in my head (gently probably is better). I suppose you could say them out loud too, but people might think you’re a little strange.
I try to let the answers flow into my head without too much judgment. After all, maybe what I needed most at that moment in time was to “veg out” to a TV show or some pointless YouTube videos. There’s nothing wrong with embracing some well-earned downtime. Oftentimes, however, the question helps me realize that if I can make time for watching videos of the San Diego chicken, I have time for things that might be a bit more fulfilling and rewarding, personally and professionally.
How do you spend your time?
Stay safe, my friends.